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What Is Love?
Added by Shehzi Khan at 2007-06-29
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What Is Love
(Between a girl and a boy)
Every one wanna be loved but nobody can define love in satisfactory means. Usually people use different definitions in different matters. Like when someone wanna be loved He/She says that love is a spiritual feeling, in which physical look doesn’t matter but when anyone expresses his/her feelings to same person, first of all He/She looks whether he/she is good looking or not. What does it means?? At one side he/she is saying that love is a spiritual feeling and at the other side he/she is thinking about other’s physical look and not only look but many other things may be kept in mind while judging. ………… Nana Nana! You are wrong.
Actually word “Love” is a universal term, which is used for attraction between two or more persons. It can be physical or spiritual. Now it’s your mind whether you love someone’s physic or his/her spirit……..
There are some other types too. Like having flirt for passing your time or attraction due to other’s wealth or status etc but I don’t consider them necessary.
First we will talk about physical love. It’s not because I wanna talk about it but because I wanna pull out the majority of peoples from this illusion. Well now we come back to the topic. So we were talking about physical love. Physical love occurs between two opposite genders and it’s called “Sexual Love” too. Now here the situation is that people repeat some sentences often which depict the characteristics of Spiritual love but they do not understand their own feeling. They say that they love that girl but when they see another more beautiful girl they say “No! I love that (other) girl.” Although I am against Indian Movies because they are at the top of the list in spoiling the minds of youth but sometimes they do well in interest of spiritual love.
Example:
Like in a movie they showed that a guy liked a girl but when he saw a more beautiful girl, he left the first one. It was due to his physical attraction to the other girl. His attitude disappointed the first girl too much but she bore. After a time the guy realizes that he is incomplete without the first girl because the way of thinking of the other girl doesn’t matches to his mind as well as the first girl’s mind matches. And they (He & Other girl) are unable to understand each other. Then he came back to the first girl and excused for his attitude. Now it was due his spiritual attraction to first girl.
Well if we have started then we should talk about spiritual love in detail. Although the example given above can explain spiritual love too but I think it's not enough. Actually when we talk about spiritual love it crosses all boundaries of relations. These relations can be Allah and Worshiper, Prophet (PBUH) and Muslims, Mother and children, Citizen and Country, Friendship, Resident and home, Painter and his painting, gardener and flowers……..anything……….
It doesn’t means that there no existence of spiritual love between a girl and a boy, who wanna get married to each other. Look if someone loves the physic of other he/she wanna be married o him/her due to his physical attraction. It’s a temporary passion and according to the science usually it lasts in 4 years after success but at the other side when someone loves other in spiritual manners he/she also want to marry him/her because it is the only way by which they will never be apart, even not in Heaven.
Some people criticize me on it by saying that “After getting married don’t they have sexual intercourse?” and my answer is “Yes! They do but it’s not their aim, their original aim is to be together and take care of each other and marriage provides them way for that.” They also say that “Now days no one do love like this”. I would like to tell them that “We don’t have to do what others do but what is true.”
In some movies dialog it is usually repeated often that “Do you even know what love means? Love is an ocean, love is to devote yourself to other………..and... bla! bla! bla!” Please listen it is true but some don't understand the meaning of these dialogs. I think these dialogs can't be implemented on every kind of "Love" because love can be more and less. If you don’t believe then I have a prove for it and that’s a saying of Holy Prophet (PBUH) that “Allah love his man 70 times more than a mother” it means there is a difference between the value of love of Allah and a mother. When these dialogs are repeated it means that one should marry him/her, to whom he/she loves most, to whom which he/she wanna devote his/her life. So that they may have less misunderstandings in there life.
Uffff………What the hell you are? You take every thing negative. I did not mean that marriage is the destiny of love but marriage is a way to it's aim. Sometimes we love someone but the other one don't have such feelings for us or sometimes another person loves us then we must also respect other’s feelings too. Sometimes we got some other problems then we shall do what is best for all because we don’t always get what we want and what we deserve. Sometimes our dreams remain incomplete and it’s a part of our life………
In the end I would like to say that Love is an intense feeling of tender affection and compassion. Which is for everyone without limits. But the physical love is a passionate feeling of romantic desire and sexual attraction. Sometime they both come together and it’s good to have a good life time but never take them as a unit because Love is a universal term and sexual love is just a kind of love.
*Note: These all are my own opinions. May be I am wrong but I don’t wanna hurt someone. It was just, what my heart said to me. What does your heart say? Inform me about your opinions. Many people will oppose me and a few people may do my favor too but I wanna listen true because I wanna make my thoughts perfect because "Perfect thoughts make a Perfect Man"
Thanks a lot!
Shehzi Khan
2007-06-29
Category: Friendship, Advice
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